That strange looking tool? That’s called a seam splitter. It does what you would expect.
Hand me that skirt. Thanks. See? Here is a seam. I asked for this skirt because the fabric is still pretty, even though it is worn on that side. This side is still beautiful. Still useful. This is the hope of fabric.
You will be tempted to just grab on and rip. It is fast. It feels good. To tear is to feel quick power. And if all you want is strips for a rag rug, or to tie up tomato plants, that’s fine.
But – you probably know this already – tearing is not usually deliberate. More often it’s driven by pent up energy. Impulse needing release. Need can be blind, like rage. The outcome – a rag rug or whatnot – may not even be a thought in the straining or pulling. Most rips are unintended.
So, hand me that seam-splitter. Thanks. It satisfies in a different way. It’s methodical. When I work it along the seam like this, I can already imagine the potential I am creating. I might be planning a quilt. Or curtains. Or even another skirt with a pattern that I met in a dream last night, these very colors winking at me with purpose and knowing.
With luck, my hands might even contribute to what Dr. King referred to as our “single garment of destiny.”
We take things apart at the seams when we need to start over. When the material we have is still valued, still loved, but just does not fit any more.
You know already that I’m going to say that life is like this too, don’t you?
You have what you need. Consider it in a new way. Move forward with purpose and honor.